Tips usaha mencari jodoh bagi kaum wanita


Assalamualaikum semua..

Semua tips di bawah ini sy dapat dari novel Denyut Kasih Medik

1)      Berusaha untuk menjadi seorang muslimah yang sejati. Apabila sesuai masanya dan tepat orangnya, serahkanlah ‘kesediaan hati’ anda untuk dirisik dan dipinang dengan jalan yang syarak.
2)      Berusaha mengawal diri supaya jgn gedik, mudah mnyerah dan mudah mlayan krna wanita sebegini biasanya begitu snang untuk dmiliki oleh lelaki yang kurang akhlaknya dan senang untuk disia-siakan.
3)      Berkawan dgn rakan sejantina yg solehah.
4)      Jika anda terpikat kpd agama dan akhlak seorang lelaki dan anda ingin mmulakan, pilihlah cara mlalui org tgh yg soleh. Jgn mghantar hasrat terus kpdnya krna ia boleh mnjatuhkan martabat dan kemuliaan ‘malu’ anda di matanya.
5)      Minta ibu bapa, abang atau saudara-mara yg mncarikan untuk anda
6)      Jika anda dirisik secara langsung oleh seseorang lelaki, agama dan akhlaknya disenangi, mintalah dia merisik dgn cara yg lebih mulia iaitu dgn terus melibatkan org tua bukan hanya berdua-duaan antara anda dan dia.

~Semua ini kredit kpd DR FARHAN HADI novel DENYUT KASIH MEDIK
~Semoga ia menjadi panduan dan kesedaran kpd kita semua, dan saya terutamanya.

Salam sayang buat semua yg singgah disini..semoga bermanfaat..

23:23
April 18, 2012
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